Who starts
A conversation starts after six hours of quiet. We count who sends the first message, every single time.
How it’s countedOut now on iPhone
Bring in a WhatsApp chat you’ve already lived through. WholeThing counts who starts the conversations, how fast each of you replies, and the week things changed.
Something changed around March 2025. You started talking far more.
You two are night owls.
of your messages happen after 9 PM.
Sample report. Names and numbers are illustrative.
Export the chat on your phone, or pick screenshots. Both work. One goes deeper.
Do this on your phone. WhatsApp on a computer often has only the last few months.
This changes what we look for.
We’ll start with this. You’ll still see the rest.
One of your two free findings
Something changed around March 2025. You started talking far more.
Sample report. Names and numbers are illustrative.
Each line ticks over when that part of the work is actually done. There’s no timer.
The numbers come from your messages, on your phone. A language model helps word the sentences, and it can’t add a number: a sentence that tries is thrown out and replaced.
A conversation starts after six hours of quiet. We count who sends the first message, every single time.
How it’s countedThe typical reply time for each of you, period by period. If one of you changed pace, you see when.
How it’s countedAround July 2025, Sam started taking longer to reply.
The one week where messages per week shifted the most, with before and after side by side.
How it’s countedSomething changed around March 2025. You started talking far more.
You two are night owls.
of your messages happen after 9 PM.
The word you both keep using, and the three emojis doing most of the work.
How it’s countedThese three do most of the work.
emojis sent.
Sample report. Names and numbers are illustrative.
Two findings are free. The rest are already counted, and wait behind the blur until you unlock the conversation.
Free
Something changed around March 2025. You started talking far more.
Free
Unlocks with the conversation
Around July 2025, Sam started taking longer to reply.
Unlock this conversation to keep reading.
The screens you’ll meet, from bringing a chat in to reading what was found.




Screens from the app, made with a sample chat. Names and words are stand-ins.
A chat is about as private as it gets. Here is exactly where yours goes.
On your phone
Call me at +44 7700 900123 when you land, Sam
sent the photos to jamie.r@mail.com and the link is https://photos.app/4xQ
Removed before anything leaves the phone.
Conversations between two people: a WhatsApp export, or screenshots from apps like Instagram, iMessage, Snapchat or Hinge. Group chats aren’t supported.
An export has every message, every year, so it can show reply times, turning points and silences. Screenshots only show what’s on screen, so a quick read stays with what’s visible, like who writes more and the words you share. How each finding is counted
Around 200 messages over at least two weeks, with both of you writing. Longer chats have more to find.
WhatsApp on a computer often has only the last few months. Your phone has the whole history. How to export a WhatsApp chat on iPhone
The first two findings of every conversation. The rest unlock with a one-time purchase for that conversation, or a 7-Day Pass that covers every new analysis you start in the seven days after buying it. There’s no subscription.
Yes. Long-press it in Your reports and delete it. The conversation and its report are removed from your phone.
The app and its reports are in English and Turkish. You’ll need an iPhone on iOS 17 or later.
WholeThing is on the App Store. Two findings are free for every conversation.