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Who is this chat with?

Tell WholeThing who the other person is and it changes what it looks for first. Here is what each report opens with.

  • Reading a chat with your crush

    What WholeThing counts in a chat with a crush: who starts, who writes more, whether replies are changing. And what no count can tell you about feelings.

  • When the chat is the clearest thing you have

    Why a situationship chat feels on and off, when it shifted and who carries it: what WholeThing counts in the messages, and what no number can decide for you.

  • Texting less with your partner

    Texting less with your partner? WholeThing shows when your rhythm changed, how balanced the chat is and what keeps repeating, without judging what it means.

  • Looking back at a chat with an ex

    Looking back at a chat with an ex? WholeThing shows the week things changed, the longest silence, who came back first and your pattern. Never what they feel.

  • Who texts first in your friendship

    Feel like you always text first? WholeThing counts who starts, who makes the plans and the words only you two use in a chat with a friend. No verdicts.

  • Your chat with mom, dad or a sibling

    Not a family group chat: a one-to-one chat with a parent or sibling. WholeThing counts who checks in first, what you talk about most and your own pattern.

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